Monday, March 14, 2011

Life has suddenly become very complicated. Before I left for vacation, a had a little trouble here or there, but overall, things were pretty straightforward. I may not have always enjoyed everything I was doing at all times, but at least everything made sense.

I came back from vacation and everything has been turned upside down.

Two of my friends who have been together forever are ending things. They have built a life together over the past 17 years, and now they don't want to be together anymore.

I'm heartbroken for them both.

I want to be a non-issue in this whole ordeal.

But somehow, I feel myself being pulled into it. I don't want to be caught in the middle.

I have some thinking to do...


Anonymous said...

Tough situation, especially with close friends. Hopefully you won't be put in a position that makes you uncomfortable, and hopefully you won't get dragged down yourself. Feel free to vent here if need be; that's why we blog, isn't it?

The Singlutionary said...

Breakups happen to the whole community. I trust that you have enough strength and insight to provide friendship to both of them.

But you might need another friend to talk to -- because this is going to be hard on you too.

A period of adjustment for everyone.

Things like this shake our faith in well . . . pretty much everything.